Heidy LaFleur

Heidy LaFleur

Keynote Speaker: National Mental Health & Trauma Speaker, CEO of Heidy with a Why, Inc, & Author of "Those Kids are OUR Kids"

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Heidy LaFleur Biography

Heidy LaFleur is Heidy with a WHY. She is a vibrant, positive and common sense leader with an explosive passion for helping people understand trauma, mental health & the critical importance of social emotional learning. LaFleur is a forever teacher, former school administrator and most importantly, a mother who lives the trauma and mental health cycle with her family. She is the founder of Heidy with a WHY, Inc. where she provides a life-changing keynote address, professional development, team building, consulting & coaching opportunities across the country.

LaFleur received her Bachelor of Science in Education at Drake University where she earned a full volleyball scholarship. Her graduate work in Educational Leadership took place at Northeastern Illinois University. She has authored "Hop on the Clue Bus" – 'A Common Sense Guide to Leadership', "Hop on the Clue Bus" - 'A Common Sense Guide to Conquering Teacher Evaluation' and "Those Kids are OUR Kids".

She was awarded the Double D Award from Drake University, the highest honor bestowed on alumni student-athletes for work in their field of study, as well as the John P. McGovern M.D. Award for Lectureship in School Health. Heidy is a grateful wife of a firefighter|paramedic and proud mother of three beautiful children.

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Heidy LaFleur Speaking Topics

Mental Health |Trauma | Education: Soaring Balloons & Heavy Shackles Helping the Most Challenged Kids Soar

This powerful true story, based on real life trauma, provides practical strategies to understand how our Actions, Words & Expressions (AWE) have a direct impact on the outcome of interactions with our students.

Trauma transforms the student experience and practicing our perspective can assist in a child’s journey to reclaim livelihood. We are empowered to be a part of the problem or part of the solution with all kids. Our AWE can either add weight to their shackles or fill their balloons to soar.

Attendee results:

  • Learn and be able to act upon the difference between trauma aware and trauma informed.
  • Realize the impact of changing perspective from the kid is giving me a hard time, to the kid is having a hard time.
  • Understand how human behavior is like a bonfire and adults can add fuel to it and accelerate it, or add water to it and calm it.

Trauma and Science Brain Behavior |Self-Regulation/Education: From Chaos to Calm Proactively Responding to Student Behavior

In our trauma-filled world, all people want to be seen, heard, understood and validated as they communicate through behavior. All past experiences, circumstances & stories determine physical and emotional regulation which can be communicated through anger, defiance and misunderstood intent. Learning the art of responding rather than reacting starts with self-regulation skills and a proactive mindset that resets everyday. Taking care of your own regulation can and will determine an escalation to chaos or a de-escalation to calm.

Using the latest brain-based trauma research, gain more than 10 practical strategies to work through any situation by understanding that self-regulation and proactivity are key in taking any situation from chaos to calm.

Social Emotional Learning Mental Health and Trauma: The Social Emotional Alphabet Making EVERY day the BEST day for EVERY Child

Every letter of Heidy LaFleur’s Social Emotional Alphabet represents a practical & powerful strategy to help our kids who have been traumatized, feel misunderstood or take frequent detours from what’s expected. Leave with more than 26 SEL strategies to build and maintain relationships with every child regardless of behavior.

Gain perspective that you do have the "magic wand" to guide behavior. Come see what that magic is so you can make EVERY day the BEST day for EVERY child.

Consequence Mindset vs. Punishment Mindset

Behavior is an attempt to communicate. Our response back is communication as well. If we want to change behavior, we model, teach and help students grow their coping skills for life; we consequence. If we want to feel instant gratification that the child "needs to pay" for his- her-their actions; we punish.

Learn the difference between consequence mindset and punishment mindset and realize people become defiant for a reason. Using Heidy LaFleur’s Social Emotional Alphabet, realize there’s a difference between Defiant & Deficient students, we must Empower over Ego, give Feedback with Feeling, provide Golden Greetings, honor one's Journey without Judgement, be Open to Opposition & Value Vulnerability.

Education | Discipline | Behavior : Keep Them in Class

Regulating oneself is the first step to de escalating behavior & building relationships with OUR kids. Often, safe behavior can be annoying, but should not warrant a student being removed from class. We will define safe vs. unsafe behavior, discuss what to say and do when students communicate through undesired behavior & “be a VERB” in order to problem solve.

Utilizing Heidy LaFleur’s Social Emotional Alphabet, be sure to show Interest before Instruction, realize the power in salient Listening, give Kindness to every Kid, Nevertheless Negotiate to keep kids in class, know this is a very Meaningful Mission & use Questions to Quiet and calm.

Heidy LaFleur Videos

Strategies for Helping our Most Challenged Kids Soar

How do I book Heidy LaFleur to speak at my event?

Our experienced booking agents have successfully helped clients around the world secure speakers like Heidy LaFleur for speaking engagements, personal appearances, product endorsements, or corporate entertainment since 2002. Click the Check Schedule button above and complete the form on this page to check availability for Heidy LaFleur, or call our office at 1.800.698.2536 to discuss your upcoming event. One of our experienced agents will be happy to help you get speaking fee information and check availability for Heidy LaFleur or any other speaker of your choice.

How much does it cost to book Heidy LaFleur for a speaking engagement?

Speaking fees for Heidy LaFleur, or any other speakers and celebrities, are determined based on a number of factors and may change without notice. The estimated fees to book Heidy LaFleur are $10,000 - $20,000 for live events and Below $10,000 for virtual events. For the most current speaking fee to hire Heidy LaFleur, click the Check Schedule button above and complete the form on this page, or call our office at 1.800.698.2536 to speak directly with an experienced booking agent.

What topics does Heidy LaFleur speak about?

Heidy LaFleur is a keynote speaker and industry expert who speaks on a wide range of topics such as Women, Inspirational, Authors, Literary, Mental Health, Youth, Education, Stress Management, Happiness and Psychology.

Where does Heidy LaFleur travel from?

Heidy LaFleur generally travels from Chicago, IL, USA and can be booked for (private) corporate events, personal appearances, keynote speeches, or other performances.

Who is the agent for Heidy LaFleur?

AAE Speakers Bureau has successfully secured keynote speakers like Heidy LaFleur for clients worldwide since 2002. As a full-service speaker booking agency, we have access to virtually any speaker or celebrity in the world. Our agents are happy and able to submit an offer to the speaker or celebrity of your choice, letting you benefit from our reputation and long-standing relationships in the industry. Please click the Check Schedule button above and complete the form on this page including the details of your event, or call our office at 1.800.698.2536, and one of our agents will assist you to book Heidy LaFleur for your next private or corporate function.

What is a full-service speaker booking agency?

AAE Speakers Bureau is a full-service speaker booking agency, meaning we can completely manage the speaker’s or celebrity’s engagement with your organization from the time of booking your speaker through the event’s completion. We provide all of the services you need to host Heidy LaFleur or any other speaker of your choice, including offer negotiation, contractual assistance, accounting and billing, and event speaker travel and logistics services. When you book a speaker with us, we manage the process of hosting a speaker for you as an extension of your team. Our goal is to give our clients peace of mind and a best-in-class service experience when booking a speaker with us.

Why is AAE Speakers Bureau different from other booking agencies?

If you’re looking for the best speaker recommendations, paired with a top-notch customer service experience, you’re in the right place. At AAE Speakers Bureau, we exclusively represent the interests of our clients - professional organizations, companies, universities, and associations. We intentionally do not represent the speakers we feature or book. That is so we can present our clients with the broadest and best performing set of speaker options in the market today, and we can make these recommendations without any obligation to promote a specific speaker over another. This is why when our agents suggest a speaker for your event, you can be assured that they are of the highest quality with a history of proven success with our other clients.


Heidy LaFleur is a keynote speaker and industry expert who speaks on a wide range of topics including Women, Inspirational and Authors. The estimated speaking fee range to book Heidy LaFleur for live events is $10,000 - $20,000, and for virtual events Below $10,000. Heidy LaFleur generally travels from Chicago, IL, USA and can be booked for (private) corporate events, personal appearances, keynote speeches, or other performances. Similar motivational celebrity speakers are James Garbarino, Sarah Vinson and Dr. 1Drea Pennington Wasio. Contact All American Speakers for ratings, reviews, videos and information on scheduling Heidy LaFleur for an upcoming event.

Speaker profile last updated by AAE Talent Team on 17/05/2024.

Heidy LaFleur Speaking Topics

  • Mental Health |Trauma | Education: Soaring Balloons & Heavy Shackles Helping the Most Challenged Kids Soar

    This powerful true story, based on real life trauma, provides practical strategies to understand how our Actions, Words & Expressions (AWE) have a direct impact on the outcome of interactions with our students.

    Trauma transforms the student experience and practicing our perspective can assist in a child’s journey to reclaim livelihood. We are empowered to be a part of the problem or part of the solution with all kids. Our AWE can either add weight to their shackles or fill their balloons to soar.

    Attendee results:

    • Learn and be able to act upon the difference between trauma aware and trauma informed.
    • Realize the impact of changing perspective from the kid is giving me a hard time, to the kid is having a hard time.
    • Understand how human behavior is like a bonfire and adults can add fuel to it and accelerate it, or add water to it and calm it.

  • Trauma and Science Brain Behavior |Self-Regulation/Education: From Chaos to Calm Proactively Responding to Student Behavior

    In our trauma-filled world, all people want to be seen, heard, understood and validated as they communicate through behavior. All past experiences, circumstances & stories determine physical and emotional regulation which can be communicated through anger, defiance and misunderstood intent. Learning the art of responding rather than reacting starts with self-regulation skills and a proactive mindset that resets everyday. Taking care of your own regulation can and will determine an escalation to chaos or a de-escalation to calm.

    Using the latest brain-based trauma research, gain more than 10 practical strategies to work through any situation by understanding that self-regulation and proactivity are key in taking any situation from chaos to calm.

  • Social Emotional Learning Mental Health and Trauma: The Social Emotional Alphabet Making EVERY day the BEST day for EVERY Child

    Every letter of Heidy LaFleur’s Social Emotional Alphabet represents a practical & powerful strategy to help our kids who have been traumatized, feel misunderstood or take frequent detours from what’s expected. Leave with more than 26 SEL strategies to build and maintain relationships with every child regardless of behavior.

    Gain perspective that you do have the "magic wand" to guide behavior. Come see what that magic is so you can make EVERY day the BEST day for EVERY child.

  • Consequence Mindset vs. Punishment Mindset

    Behavior is an attempt to communicate. Our response back is communication as well. If we want to change behavior, we model, teach and help students grow their coping skills for life; we consequence. If we want to feel instant gratification that the child "needs to pay" for his- her-their actions; we punish.

    Learn the difference between consequence mindset and punishment mindset and realize people become defiant for a reason. Using Heidy LaFleur’s Social Emotional Alphabet, realize there’s a difference between Defiant & Deficient students, we must Empower over Ego, give Feedback with Feeling, provide Golden Greetings, honor one's Journey without Judgement, be Open to Opposition & Value Vulnerability.

  • Education | Discipline | Behavior : Keep Them in Class

    Regulating oneself is the first step to de escalating behavior & building relationships with OUR kids. Often, safe behavior can be annoying, but should not warrant a student being removed from class. We will define safe vs. unsafe behavior, discuss what to say and do when students communicate through undesired behavior & “be a VERB” in order to problem solve.

    Utilizing Heidy LaFleur’s Social Emotional Alphabet, be sure to show Interest before Instruction, realize the power in salient Listening, give Kindness to every Kid, Nevertheless Negotiate to keep kids in class, know this is a very Meaningful Mission & use Questions to Quiet and calm.

Heidy LaFleur Videos

Strategies for Helping our Most Challenged Kids Soar

Heidy LaFleur Reviews

  • Heidy LaFleur was dynamic, engaging, and educational. We had tons of requests for her to do trainings for other facilities because all of the participants wanted to share her message with their workers who couldn't attend.
    The Board of Trustees of the University of Alabama - Jan 19 2024

  • How do I book Heidy LaFleur to speak at my event?

    Our experienced booking agents have successfully helped clients around the world secure speakers like Heidy LaFleur for speaking engagements, personal appearances, product endorsements, or corporate entertainment since 2002. Click the Check Schedule button above and complete the form on this page to check availability for Heidy LaFleur, or call our office at 1.800.698.2536 to discuss your upcoming event. One of our experienced agents will be happy to help you get speaking fee information and check availability for Heidy LaFleur or any other speaker of your choice.
  • How much does it cost to book Heidy LaFleur for a speaking engagement?

    Speaking fees for Heidy LaFleur, or any other speakers and celebrities, are determined based on a number of factors and may change without notice. The estimated fees to book Heidy LaFleur are $10,000 - $20,000 for live events and Below $10,000 for virtual events. For the most current speaking fee to hire Heidy LaFleur, click the Check Schedule button above and complete the form on this page, or call our office at 1.800.698.2536 to speak directly with an experienced booking agent.
  • What topics does Heidy LaFleur speak about?

    Heidy LaFleur is a keynote speaker and industry expert who speaks on a wide range of topics such as Women, Inspirational, Authors, Literary, Mental Health, Youth, Education, Stress Management, Happiness and Psychology.
  • Where does Heidy LaFleur travel from?

    Heidy LaFleur generally travels from Chicago, IL, USA and can be booked for (private) corporate events, personal appearances, keynote speeches, or other performances.
  • Who is the agent for Heidy LaFleur?

    AAE Speakers Bureau has successfully secured keynote speakers like Heidy LaFleur for clients worldwide since 2002. As a full-service speaker booking agency, we have access to virtually any speaker or celebrity in the world. Our agents are happy and able to submit an offer to the speaker or celebrity of your choice, letting you benefit from our reputation and long-standing relationships in the industry. Please click the Check Schedule button above and complete the form on this page including the details of your event, or call our office at 1.800.698.2536, and one of our agents will assist you to book Heidy LaFleur for your next private or corporate function.
  • What is a full-service speaker booking agency?

    AAE Speakers Bureau is a full-service speaker booking agency, meaning we can completely manage the speaker’s or celebrity’s engagement with your organization from the time of booking your speaker through the event’s completion. We provide all of the services you need to host Heidy LaFleur or any other speaker of your choice, including offer negotiation, contractual assistance, accounting and billing, and event speaker travel and logistics services. When you book a speaker with us, we manage the process of hosting a speaker for you as an extension of your team. Our goal is to give our clients peace of mind and a best-in-class service experience when booking a speaker with us.
  • Why is AAE Speakers Bureau different from other booking agencies?

    If you’re looking for the best speaker recommendations, paired with a top-notch customer service experience, you’re in the right place. At AAE Speakers Bureau, we exclusively represent the interests of our clients - professional organizations, companies, universities, and associations. We intentionally do not represent the speakers we feature or book. That is so we can present our clients with the broadest and best performing set of speaker options in the market today, and we can make these recommendations without any obligation to promote a specific speaker over another. This is why when our agents suggest a speaker for your event, you can be assured that they are of the highest quality with a history of proven success with our other clients.
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